What do you guys think? .. How do i deal with a shy crush?

How to deal with a shy crush. What do you guys think?


I mean shes really shy we talk fine on texting on msn i make her laugh and everything although i dnt know in person seems like she always avoids me.... maybe she doesnt like me or shes shy.. idnt know... but like when i show up randomly she like runs to her freind pretending to be want to tell them something important....i know its ';pretending'; because it has happened more than once..








Should i ask her if i could call her or just call .. i always try to give her as much space as possible. and never annoy her. Ex. Talking to her only in the evening. so if i call should it be in the evening randomly (at a time when shes not doing notyhing infront of the computer. reason being i dont want to annoy her or call when shes busy.. or should i call after school or what should i doWhat do you guys think? .. How do i deal with a shy crush?
Just call. Providing too much space is called ';moving on';....





Why assume you would be annoying her? When you communicate with her, focus on the type of things that would make her laugh and help you gain sure footing with her...so you know where you're headed.





She may be shy in public or have a situation (cultural rules, etc.) that does not allow her to show a great deal of emotional tenderness in public. I don't know her, but those are two of several standard issues that come up when a person's trying to hook up with a shy or reserved person.What do you guys think? .. How do i deal with a shy crush?
Yea just give her a random call out of the blue or she might get worked up and nervous about it if shes quite shy :)
i hate when guys ask if they can call. just do it and if i wanna talk ill talk!
Aww. Oh my goodness, I was SO that girl about 4 years ago. The poor guy I liked tried to make progress with me, but alas, I was too shy aka way too difficult.


Hopefully, she'll be easier to get out of her shell than I was! :) Good luckkkk!!!





Oh, and if I were you I'd probably just call. She doesn't have to answer if she wants.
If she'll talk to you, ask if you can call her. Heck, IM her and ask if you can call her. Plenty of super-shy people can pull off talking on the phone even if they don't want to talk face-to-face.


Or you could try leaving it the way it is and seeing where it's heading...


Good Luck!
Since she is shy she just runs away. Because she likes you...


I am sure on this. How? Because most shy people are nice and wouldn't just run away if they didn't like you. (As a person)


Make the first move. She won't feel as awkward (in a good-ish way) if you just call.





(Oh, one more thing. If she is shy she probably won't feel comfortable formally dating. Maybe casual?)