Monday, August 16, 2010

How should i deal with my crush talking to his ex girlfriend?

Im 20 years old and currently talking to this guy via the internet. We have been talking on a daily basis for about 3 months now and have established we have strong feelings for each other although we have never met in person. The problem is that i am extremely jealous because he still talks to his ex-girlfriend (she is a model by the way..) but claims that he doesn't hang out with her although they live near each other. I know that she wants to get back together with him but he tells me he doesn't want to be with her. I know we're not dating but he treats me like I'm his girlfriend. Another point i would like to make is that he watches me on webcam and i recently found out that he watches her too. I don't know whether to trust him or not with this whole situation. please help!How should i deal with my crush talking to his ex girlfriend?
Lmao. You've never met this guy, right? how can you be sure he's not lying to you about the whole thing?


he could be saying all that stuff about his ';ex'; who is a ';model'; just to make himself look cool...


it's alot easier to treat someone like they're your girlfriend if you don't have to worry about actually BEING with them, and it looks like he's trying to scare you into doing what he wants by telling you that his ex is trying to get back with him...


i wouldn't trust this guy, in fact, i'd tell him that unless he meets you soon and gives you proof that he wants to be with you, you're outta there.How should i deal with my crush talking to his ex girlfriend?
Um, I think you are thinking about this in the wrong context. You said that he is your CRUSH, right? Not your boyfriend? You two aren't officially in a relationship, right? If not, then he is free to do whatever he wants to and it really isn't any of your business anyway. I think it is likely that you will scare him off if you are this clingy and jealous when the two of you aren't even a real couple! Also, he's just an internet guy. Chill.
The guy is a collector! He wants tons of girls. He is just your crush and not your boyfriend so just disappear on him unless you want him to throw that in your face.





Date other guys and dump this one.
Well until he says your his girlfriend I dont see the problem, dont let jealousy interfere, it gets ugly when that happens.. Just give it time to sort itself out :) good luck!
You are not in a relationship with this guy. This is a virtual relationship. How do you know that this guy isn't chatting or viewing the webcams of 10 other girls?








You are using your imagination to fill in the blanks of what he may be like. If he is serious about you he will arrange to meet you. You can then work out if he and you are compatable in real life and have good conversations in real life.





Through all this remember his ex gf is a model. Wow. That's some pretty tough competition for a girl . So unless she has a horrible personality or is some other failing. I would be pessimistic about your chances.





THat is unless you are very hot yourself in which case drop me an email. Only joking.!
dont listen to the crap on tv about finding love on the internet!! you may think you have strong feelings but he could be out and having a gf while ur at home thinking hes all urs! a healthy relationship you need to truly know each other and you dont even know if this guy is a pervert...have you ever seen him on a webcam? or is he some weird guy watching you !?! u dont know this guy.. i know its kinda like a saftey tip but dont just find a real man that TRULY cares and loves u!


sory to make it so long!!
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