Saturday, August 21, 2010

How to deal with shyness when talking to your crush?

I have a crush...but im shy to talk to him in person....


What do I do?


Im scared of saying something stupid


and im most scared of it being awkward and having NOTHING to talk about!How to deal with shyness when talking to your crush?
do what i do, before walkign up to him tell yourself ';What the hell, i have nothing to loose.'; Go for it and be yourself, because if to him being yourself is stupid because of something you've said, you can't hide that forever.How to deal with shyness when talking to your crush?
Don't be worried about saying something stupid, because if you keep on thinking about what you're gonna say, it ends up sounding stupid! trust me, when you get to spend some time together and find your common interests, you can both talk about something that you're both interested in, and then you're not shy anymore. It's just a matter of time... why don't you just relax when you're around him? consider him a normal friend of yours, and then it's easier to talk to him without being too shy!
Well what I always do to talk to my crush(well now he's my boyfriend), I always asked him a question about math and then he would tell or whatever then I would bring something else up and just keep talking to him. But if it ever begins to feel awkward, tell him you should probably get going and tell him you'll talk to him later. That always worked for me, so maybe you should try it. Hope this helped!
dont listen to the answers about texting him.


texting is not a good idea, because there is no way to tell how they are really feeling when you are talking to him.


just go up to him and start a conversation, get a little flirty like say how cute he looked that day or something. ANYTHING.


you have nothing to lose, and if you didnt talk to him, then you would miss out.


go for it


-ash
just talk to him like to talk with ur guy friends


whisper to urself ';it's not the end of the world this is a cute guy what's the fuss for?';


once ur confident in urself u wont be intimidated to talk to him but if u let ur shyness get the best of you then you'll shy him away u have to be strong ur not stupid! =]
Sh sh sh. No, don't talk. Just walk up to him and drop to your knees. Take him fully into your mouth. That's right, just a little suction. Not to fast. Watch the teeth.





Okay, now stand up and turn around. Slowly drop your pants, but leave your panties on. Just pull them to the side a little. Let him enter you from behind.





The relationship will just take off naturally from there.
just say, '; hows it going?'; or ';Hi'; and it will start something up....he will start talking and words will come to you once it gets going....but you have to say something or he wont notice you...my friends were together and the girl DID NOT SAY ANYthINg.....if she saw the guy she would go into a secluded state and cling to her friends...
being shy around them just goes to show that you like them.. being stupid to them is normal.. you cant get around it. and when you do your going to feel bad but just keep doing it and it will the eventually stop the feeling of being shy
it is natural to be shy! and its kind of cute! and he will find out that you like him and he will like you too! its a law you like someone more if you know they like you!
Just go to him and make up something happening right now and it would turn into a sweet conversation for hours
just be urself around him . if yu just act like urself there wont be any awkward silence .
Do some thing or tell him some thing which actually means that u like him.
What's the worst thing that could happen if you talked to him?





It's worth a shot and you know it.
I just acknowledge the fact that I AM going to say something stupid. It actually takes a lot of pressure off.
text him or call him
have some liquid courage
write em a note
text him

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