How can I deal with this crush problem?

Ok, I mean with my feelings, I have a big crush on this boy at school and he's very nice, special and everything but I'm against my own feelings because I should tell him I love him but at the other side I just can't becuase I'm scared that our friendship will break apart...My friends tell me that I should tell because he's not the kind of boy who will ignore me when he knows, in fact I think they're right because as I know him, he's not like that, but at the other hand I have this other friend who tells me to follow my heart but my heart is like ';fighting'; against my brain...lol... to tell him or not...What should I do!!!??


In addition he's leaving school this year because he's a senior and I'm a junior, so I don't have time, understand?? Well, I hope so =)How can I deal with this crush problem?
My best friend is having the same problem right now. She recently realized that she was completely in love with her best friend since first grade, and she told him. She was nervous and insanely scared but he ended up feeling exactly the same. You'll never know unless you try, and go for it, and take risks..because if he's leaving and you never say anything you'll spend a good amount of time wishing you would have.How can I deal with this crush problem?
You have to follow your heart. If you don't tell him that you love him and follow your heart you will have doubts about what could have been for the rest of your life.





I say go for it and tell him!
tell him ';(his name) i have always loved you, but i never had this chance to tell you ( talk in a somewhat sad mood) please (hug him). easy!
Don't stress about this he's going to be in college next year and he will meet new people. Who knows he may meet someone else. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
Go for it. just start a converstaion and say ';I love you'; if his face looks like he doestn feel same way and it looks like he feels werid then say you know as a friend if he doesnt like you back. hope this helps tell me results if you want.
tell him, trust me,,,,,the worst they can say is no.......if feels a lot better to get it off your chest
I think you should just go for it and tell him how you feel. If your friends are right it wont make any difference to him, thats if he doesnt like you back. But if he does, im sure you guys will have a happy relationship. But if you are scared, just sit down take some time to go over your own feelings, sort out in your head what you want to say to him.





Goodluck, SceneKidxox
tell him...because it sounds like he's not the type to ignore you and abandon your friendship if he doesn't like you back. good luck dear! plus he's leaving....you don't have time and if it goes badly he's gone anyways!
write how you really feel to him
This might sound absolutely crazy, but I would write him a note explaining to him that it's hard for you to tell him, and you don't want to like ruin your guys' friendship over it, so that's why you are writing it in a note!


that's what i got!
Do it and if he doesn't like you(he prob will like u tho) .............at least you knew you fought your fears and did something about it.
I think you need to tell him how you feel.


why keep a secret like this anyway?
tell him! tellll himm! if hes worth it, hell come around. dont waste time!
ders a sayin idk it exactly, but its sumthin lik not sayin anythin can break hearts or sumthin..... but u should tell him..... but dont listen to anybody but ur self... do wat u want...
Tell him!! It shouldn't be bundled up inside you. Good luck. What ever you choose it will be a good pick :)
Tell him your in love with him then. Take a chance, go for it. If you know that he's not going to ignore you than what are you waiting for. Don't be nervous just do it. Don't fight what your heart desires!
you should tell him, especially if hes leaving soon...if not youll never know what could have been
i think that you should tell him before its to latee and he is goneee!! that would be sad if you didnt get to tell him..cause trust me its hard to forgett!! tell him...you wont regret it...atleast i dont think!!! me and my crush talked about going out but we didnt want to get into a fight and then ruining our friendship!!! listen to your friends! they know you better than i doo...soo they know whats best for you..unless they like him to! just tell him....i hope everything turns out well:]]
Honey, tell him how you feel, sounds like he`s a good guy. I love friends myself, but a relationship your afraid of and understand. Don`t over do it tell him you love the friendship we have and ask if it could go a little further. What`s the worst, you loose a relationship but not your friendship or dignity.Understand? OK?


Best of Luck too you.


and oh, you have plenty of time.