How do u deal with crushes?

i have a crush on my best friend. a serious kinda crush. so serious untill when i see him talking to another guy, i will get ';kinda'; jealous... this feels really really stupid, coz i know damn well this is due to my hormones, brains, or whatever acting up.





i already told him i like him, by sending him a message through facebook (bad idea, i know. he didnt speak about what i told him through facebook) the problem is that i thought by telling him, it will be easier for me to let ';it'; go. well, clearly, that didnt work.





is there anything that can prevent me from thinking about him as much as i do right now? avoiding him is definitely not an option as i hv around 2years together with him in the same university course.





p.s. do tell if u hv personal experience on successes in forgetting crushes. it's a good form of encouragement!How do u deal with crushes?
I have been out for 20 years. My current relationship accounts for 18 of those years. I have had several crushes over the years.





I learned a long time ago that crushes are ';love from afar.';


That rush of sexual/emotional attraction has nothing at all to do with relationships.





Love doesn't end sexual attraction to other people... it just gives a reason to not take it further.





Ya see, throughout a lifetime you will feel that toward MANY people. At some point, you will pick one and make a life together. Don't think of the crush as ';the most important thing in your life,'; think of it as, ';this episode in a long and full life.';How do u deal with crushes?
if you like someone, there really is no getting out of it until you get over it. but if you like someone don't feel like you HAVE to stop liking them. just go with the flow and see what happens
I'm making it a point to meet other people to get over my crush. It's taken a while, but it seems to be working. I've re-met an old friend and that's making it a lot easier. I'm spending more time talking to my new/old friend than I am thinking about my crush.





My advice, find a distraction. Either an activity that you like, homework, or new friend. Good luck.
Yeah, I am with you.


I have had a thing for a person I work with, and knowing that he wouldn't like guys...


Okay so I have not come out....





I wish that I could tell you how to get over it. I hate having a crush...

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