How do you deal with a crush at the job?

There's this girl that I work with and I've known her for about 1.5 years. This girl is really awesome, she's down to earth and very chill, she's sexy as all hell and she doesn't even know it. We've become close and talk to eachother on IM at work and from that she's said she has low confidence and hasn't had a BF in years and thinks its impossible to find the one for her. This kills me as I really dig this girl and would love to go out with her. Oh yeah 1 problem is that I have a GF right now, but I think about this girl a lot. My relationship is ok with my current gf, she's a sweetheart and I love her, but im not IN LOVE with her.


So my question is, do I tell my work friend how I feel about her?My heart is just ready to explode and but I just don't think she'll go for me. Physically I think I'm out of her league, but anything can happen. But we have a lot in common and we have things, like we'll know exactly and say what the other is thinking. I know I can be the man she deserves.How do you deal with a crush at the job?
I would say just go for it!! I mean like if she is so comfortable with you, she is going to give it a serious thot. And may be to think you're out of her league is just thinking too poor of urself.


But pls. break up with your current woman before making the move. If you really want her that bad, don't like have a back up just to be on the safe side. Before asking her out you should be single. If she says no, live with it and be prepared to answer the question abt being on a rebound, she is bound to ask you that.How do you deal with a crush at the job?
The grass is always greener, buddy.
relationships from work are bound to fail eventually, so if you just want a one -time-thing go for it, but remember and think about tomorrow how you both will feel


think about it!
Well she thinks your already takin that is why she said that she will find the one some day. Just tell her that you are into her and that you want to have a realationship with her.
Well remember if you tell how you feel you could make the work environment intolerable for the both of you depending on what field of work you do. It could work if you gradually befriend her before you introduce your personal interest for her.





As for your girlfriend, if you know you don't love her why stay with her? There's no reason for you to hold on and take someones time in the belief of excelling. But you don't see it ever happening nor are you willing to meet it half way. Let her go before you fight for this girl at your work. Even if both ends don't work, as in leaving your girlfriend and getting shut out by the girl at work you should still be fine. You won't get shut out.





Become good friends with the girl at work first. Don't come in too fast.
I would test the water with her first and see where she is as far as her feelings for you. You don't have to be totally outward with your feelings, but something to give her a hint. Maybe ask her out to somewhere that would be comfortable for both of you. If it goes well you could ask her if she thought this could possibly be done again and if she thought that maybe you two could date. If it's all positive, then you will have to address your gf. I am not condoning cheating on her. Just a nice date to see where the other girl stands with you. Otherwise, you may as well just IM her and see where her feelings stand for you.
Leaving one girl for another never works. You sound kind of like a jerk.. ditching your gf whose a sweetheart for someone whose just 'better looking'.





No girl is going to look well upon that. Leave your current gf on good terms, and start getting closer to the other girl. Don't just dump one and go right to another, that's a total dick move.
That's a toughy. It's the age-old question, do you risk your friendship with this girl by telling her how you feel? As a girl reading this, I can tell you for sure one thing. SHE hasn't said or hinted at the fact to dating YOU because YOU have a girlfriend. Your hands off in her head. I think first things first, quit wasting your time with the current gf if you know it's not going anywhere. The safest thing for you to do is leave HINTS rather than straight up confess your love... throw into your casual conversations things like ';if i was your boyfriend, i'd do this...'; but play it off as a friendly thing and see how she reacts. Then go from there.





And lastly, don't NOT do anything. You'll eat yourself alive if you just let this keep bottling up. :)





Hope this helps!
Don't do the whole head says listen to your heart, heart says listen to your head thing. Just listen to your heart- not your head.