Monday, August 16, 2010

How do you deal with your crush's obnoxious friends?

Soo, there's this guy, and we like each other.


I'm thinking that I want to start something with him, but his friends get on my nerves! They're really, REALLY rude, and giggle behind my back all the time. They're troublemakers. The guy I like is nothing like them at all, but somehow, they're all really close. And they're always giving him the wrong advice about me. They totally over analyze every text I send him as if they were all experts on girls, but everything they say to him is completely wrong.


I can't do anything with him or have a real talk with him because I know that his friends will overreact to everything that I do. I hate that they're so rude. How do I deal with them without losing this guy?





and I don't want to talk to him about it, because he'll tell his friends to back off a little, and they'll all say something along the lines of ';wtf? who does she think she is?';How do you deal with your crush's obnoxious friends?
First, ask him in front of all his friends: Can I talk to you ALONE?


And see what he says.


If he goes away with you, then just ask him if he wants to be with you or if he wants to be with who his friends choose?


Ask him if he is AFRAID of being ALONE with you, if you have to, either in front of his friends, if they won't let him go with you, or say it to him if you are alone, and he is not cooperating.


Guys and their friends can be a problem for the girls, until the guys understand that the girl is more interesting to be with than the friends.


Right?

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