Bad thing is, i seldom hang out with guys that much, so it's like when there's this one better guy who's fun and stuff, i'll have a crush. I KNOW IT'S JUST A CRUSH since i don't know him very well, so it can't be love.
But i hate it when he texts me, and after i replied, he either took very long or never reply at all. (What's up with this?)
Girls, have u ever met somebody like that, whom you like? How to you deal with it?
AND, how do you actually deal with somebody you think you're kinda interested, but unsure of his feeling? (Plus, i don't want to be hurt by treating him nice and stuff but ended up, he said he doesn't like me and stuff..)
Guys, are u able to tell me what this chap is up to? (He has alot of friends because he' damn chatty.How to deal with crushes without getting hurt by them?
(signnn)Listen the guy is an young idiot that crave to be popular.He takes you for granted because he have other girls to chat with.The guys i've known that did this to girls were either gay or just little immature boys.If you ask him do you like me,hes gonna say he do,but only as a friend.How to deal with crushes without getting hurt by them?
Just try to chat to him more. be a bit flirty with him and see how he responds to it like if he flirts back then he probably like u
just remember to stay grounded and everything will be fine
i would ask him if he likes you and see what he say ..... and with him not texting you back right away that is all guy my boyfriend did that to me all the time when we didnt live together but he did it so he didnt get hurt... so ask him if he likes you and see what he say and then take it from there!!!
TOO MUCH TO READ AND UNDERSTAND.
Its a chance you always take with any relationship. There is always the risk of getting hurt. Unless you want to be in a relationship with someone you always dominate it goes with the territory. But oh the rewards are so wonderful when things go right.
Try not to be too obsessed with anyone. I am guessing you are a young person. Now is the time to have a wide circle of friends and get to know the whole wide spectrum of people out there.
He may not be up to anything.
You should try talking to him, but at the same time giving him hints.
He may like you back all you have to do is ask.
Try to talk to him in private Like when the both of you see each other while walking by or walking together.
And if he says he doesn't like you, at least you tried. Don't let it get to you. It is, after all, a crush.
Though you'll be seeing him differently, keep in mind that at least you two are still going to be friends and you know that you'll have another chance.
';Seize the moment of excited curiosity on any subject to solve your doubts; for if you let it pass, the desire may never return, and you may remain in ignorance.';
-William Wirt-
I just got hurt by a crush because I was too late...oh well. Hm.. I can relate to you, he might be a big flirt try and see if he's doing this to other girls as well. You say that you know that he's not into you? Hm... Personally, what I would try and do is just keep it as friends and if you find your self getting more interested in him, then you should ask him out.
People make mistakes by not doing that- for instance, if you have a crush for even over a year it's time to ask them, because if you don't you will regret it. Even if he does reject you it doesn't mean you still can't be friends - right? It's worth a shot, just don't do it RIGHT AWAY if you're not the type of person that has the confidence level up high all the time (I sure don't :P) take your time, when you're ready, you're ready.
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