I'm a 13 year old muslim boy living in america. How do i deal with having a crush?

I'm 13 and i live in america. I have a crush on a non-muslim girl. i know im not supposed to date, but how do i deal with it. i want serious muslims giving me serious answers on this.I'm a 13 year old muslim boy living in america. How do i deal with having a crush?
go for it. Trust me, being an introvert makes the teenage years suck. Your parents may not like it, but you could be left asking yourself what could have been years later.I'm a 13 year old muslim boy living in america. How do i deal with having a crush?
give up the muslim religion and become a real man!
I am not a muslim.
What is wrong with that? It doesn't matter what race you are... You can love anyone you chose to love. Welcome to America =]
Sorry not Muslim so can't help ya.
Don't be afraid of others for their religious beliefs. Life isn't about fear.
**** The System
she will love you for you and love your muslim-ness
Try the Ramadan section, then.
i understnad, theres really nothign u can do about it. im a 15 year old female and have a muslim friend. u just gotta get through it :)
If you have a crush, you have a crush, you shouldn't deny it because of religion. I think just to save hassle from your parents or whoever you should just try to ignore it
this one is easy, just take airplane flying lessons to keep your mind off of women.
I don't know much about muslims... nor ever met one!


But I am also your age,


I think you should fallow your heart!


You heart will do the best thing..


Trust it.
You should convert to a peaceful religion like Buddhism or Christianity. No American girl wants a Muslim for a friend or boyfriend. Your Quran is a book of violence against anyone non-Muslim.
if i were you i would date anyway


unless you believe that you shouldn't date her


its not up to your family


its up to you
I don't know much about your religion, but i suggest not to do anything that affects your religion. If it helps, theres nothing wrong with staring at her.
Change your religion as soon as you're able to support yourself and move out of that controlling lifestyle.
If you're 13 I'm assuming you live with your parents. If your parents are Muslim, and you're living under their roof, then you probably have to abide by their rules. Talk with them and see what they say.
How strict and devout is your family? If you feel that you can communicate freely with your father, discuss this with him. He will likely counsel you against pursuing a relationship with this girl but you're 13. Just give yourself time.
I'm not muslm, but if she's fine,if she's dime, if she shivers your spine; then I say go for it.Save the sex till marriage,but go for it.
do they practice honor killing in america?
Yeh try studying other religions maybe. anyways, crushes are nothing, just be friends and if it should be more (whether you believe in karma or Ala or God/Jehovah/Yaweh) it will be.
Yh Its A Free World Mate





Also Become A Man, I Don't See How You Can Follow Such A Strict Religion Anyway
i'm not a muslim......it's completely normal at your age to have a crush on a girl....being muslim doesn't change that you're at the age where your hormones are all screwed up and you're going to start finding women more attractive and wanting things....it natural.....everyone has their own way of dealing with things and it really depends on wether you feel like you want to maybe talk to the girl and ';date'; or not....
Not muslim (sorry), but as much as I hate to say it most crushes don't turn into anything more. If you aren't supposed to be with her, then enjoy the crush, but leave it be at that.
You can't really do much about it, its best to avoid the girl. Do what you can to keep your mind off her. Just think about what it can lead to and pray salah i'm sure Allah (swt) will help you.
Chop off your penis
Welcome to America! And be glad this country would not punish you for pursuing your interest as they do in theocratic nations like Iran, etc.
I know it's hard to do but it took me years to learn that you shouldn't let organized religion have ANY influence on your life.
when alot of people move to america they give up the other ways to live the life that is normal around here to fit in
just be an american first and a muslim second... and the problem goes away