How do i deal with my crush who is a player?

i got attracted to this cute %26amp; funny guy who's a regular customer in our cafe.I'm single so i'm open to the possibility that he could be the one. I really have fun talking to him coz he makes me laugh.But days passed i saw him go out with another girl but im not sure if it is his gf.But yesterday it was confirmed that he's taken coz my friend asked him and he said yes it was his gf. I felt crushed and disappointed with myself for flirting and falling for his charms and sense of humor. I know it's my fault for expecting too much from this guy.Now,i wanna gain back the self-respect as a girl for he made me feel like second best %26amp; just a plaything even though it was just a little flirting.I realized that maybe because i am just a simple cashier that's why it was easy for him to play around.But i am not that kind of girl.My job is temporary here coz i just recently graduated in College.I'm doing the job to help out my aunt who owns the cafe for awhile as a sign of gratitude for the support she gave.But now i feel so insecure %26amp; helpless.I don't know how i can make him feel sorry for making me believe that the feeling was mutual..How do i deal with him now i know the truth? i just can't ignore him and pretend that he's not there.I'm forcing myself not to like him anymore knowing he likes to flirt.How am i gonna empower myself and gain back my self-confidence in my situation after what happened?How do i deal with my crush who is a player?
It is tough to take someone one one level and then learn they are on another level. Guys love to flirt. It makes them feel good. And, notice it made you feel good, too. Relax, enjoy, use the information for the future. guard yourself a little better. (Ha, good luck with that one and when you do it, let me know how!)





your self-confidence? you are someone who is fun, funny, sexy, enjoyable. his flirting with you and your ability to flirt with him are signs of that.How do i deal with my crush who is a player?
if u cant ignore him then confront him
Don't try and get him back. When a girl gets a boy back, for the boy it is the off turning thing ever.





Believe me you can earn your respect back by not getting him back showing you have the strength to walk away...








or if you don't agree..








ignore him.
From what you said, all he did was talk to you, you are the one that wanted more. And when asked if he had a girl friend, he freely admitted it, he wasn't trying to hide that fact. Go ahead and talk to him and be friendly; there's nothibg wrong with that. If this is the only thing to hurt your self-confidence, consider yourself lucky.
first of all it was way to soon to be thinking he could be the one .. i mean you didnt even date .. he flirted with you ... a lot of guys flirt with waitresses and cashiers ... its considered .. harmless flirting ... he was probably just having some fun .. but that doesnt mean he meant to do it at your expense .. he probably never thought about you taking him serious or seriously liking him ... if he thought that he probably never would have brought his gf in the cafe with him ... best just to move on ... and dont take everyone so serious ... or just be upfront and ask if they have a gf ... but if it still bothers you .. just ask him why he led you on if that is what you really believe that he did ... good luck.
Wow that would hurt but hun, You need to know it wasn't your fault men lpay around and seem to lead on someone I'm sorry your crushed and you had to go through this but maybe you need to tell him off, No i don't mean curse or pu t down i just mean like lead him off try to engage into a converstaion that implys him to go away and you don't want him around. You might still have feelings for him and your not going to want the pain of seeing him all the time right?


only trying to help hope i did...


Take care
Just accept it that he is a ';player';. If it get worse, forget your crush.