well bro all you can do is talk 2 him ssomethin like ';hey i have to talk 2 u 4 a sec'; take him away from his friends or any where u can talk alone i sugest inviteing him over then say ';listen i really nervous to tell you this and hope we can still stay friends after this but im gay or bisexual wat ev ur orentation is n say ive had a crush on you for a while now i hope you dont take this th wrong way';.......just be nice yah kno the worst any 1 can say is NO but ppl will always be friends -good luckHow should I deal with my Man Crush?
I think maybe you should just ask him out. If he convinced himself that he is straight maybe he has thought that he could be bi or gay.
So you never know.
2 options. tell him everything. or move on. thats all you can do. 99% of the time, moving on is the only option.
If he's straight, then you take his word for it. I wouldn't ask him out on a date, that has the potential to throw a wrench in your relationship as FRIENDS. If he ever ends up being gay and likes you back, I'm sure you'll be the first person he tells.
Depends on how good of a friend he is. If you're truly best friends, it's better not to push the issue. If it's meant to be, something will develop in time.
On the other hand, if he's not that much of a best friend, you might want to go for it. I had the HOTTEST friend about 5 years ago. We no longer keep in touch. Looking back, I think he may have wanted to experiment with me, and I could kill myself because it would have been HOTTTTT, I'm sure. Who knows? If we'd done something, maybe we would have had a LTR. If not, oh well...we don't keep in touch now anyway!
You just need to move on. He has expressed his is straight, and you need to respect that. Just continue to be friends. If that is too difficult, you need to move on. You sound young, so trust me it will pass. You will find someone who feels the same way about you.
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