How to deal with crushing on someone whos...?

out of your league? I like a guy who is everything I'm not. We used to be reallly close but we barely see each other now. I don't think he likes me like that--he probably never will. I don't know... it kinda hurts when I go on facebook and look at what he's been doing. He goes on all these adventures and he's got all these people in his life. My life is boring and I'm actually pretty lonely these days. I don't know how to get over him because this is the kind of guy I want to marry. (I'm only 16, I know I have time for that.) But it'll never happen with us





How do I move on? He's had tons of girlfriends and I've never had a serious boyfriend. I'm really picky, I don't like most guys I meet. P.S.- sorry if this sounds like a rant. I'm just down today.How to deal with crushing on someone whos...?
You sound a lot like me. But, i deal with it differently. I just pretend that men are imaginary or just see them ALL as ';friends'; or ';not that important';. I also dress funky and sometimes wear guys clothes. So at least if i get ignored or rejected, I don't look my best. So what! The minute you stop caring, guys won't even matter anymore.How to deal with crushing on someone whos...?
Find what you're passionate about and pursue that! Finding what you're good at and excelling with that will make you successful and feel better. For me, it always happens that it's when I'm not focusing on that person and but instead myself/a hobby that things start happening. Keep on, stay strong :)
Your only here once. Live your life instead of feeling pinned back by someone else.
oh my gosh, i feel the exact same way!


he has all the girls falling over him and flirting with him.


we hug daily, and he told me he likes me over the phone, but i do NOT believe him. he also told my friend he would like her if his best friend didn't like her.


it sucks balls.


but about your question:


(haha)


start talking to other boys if you really want to get over him. i started texting this older guy that fell for me, so he was always there to talk to. it gave me no time to think about that one guy.


it worked for about a year.


now the guy i likedd/like is broken up with his girlfriend and is driving me crazy. :(





and show the current guy how confident you are without him.
just stop thinking about it its not a big deal but if you just think in him and you are looking at his pictures and crying like a little baby it wont work im 17 and i was in love with this girl i wait many years....long story


just stop thinking about it and watch tv or stay in the computer watching videos etc... so you could be distract
Put it out there on the table; be straight with him. Many years down the road, you won't then have to live with the ';What if I had been up-front with him?';...so take the bull by the horns and go for it! Being turned down has got to beat the hell out of not knowing, or worse yet, just assuming the worst.
I know exactly how you feel! Get out there and try to meet guys, even if you don't see them as a potential boyfriend. Have a girls night out. Try talking to him again, one of my best guy friends and I were close, then grew apart a little, then became really really close.


Good luck


:)
Well, if you don't see each other very much any more then you really don't have much to lose. Call him and tell him how you're feelin'. If he doesn't respond the way you would hope then thank him for his time... tell him you felt it was best that you be honest with him and that if he changes his mind... then please let you know. Then.... Move on!..... If your life seems boring then it's quite possibly your own fault. Get out there and do something you find fun. You know... something that takes you a little out of your comfort zone. I'm sure there's a lot of guys out there that share your interests... you only need to find one! Good luck!
tell him how you feel about him. i believe it is the only way to get over a crush. yes i know, it might not work out the way you want, but it might. it is better in the long run with either result. if he turns you down, you will be upset, however, it is then possible for you to move on knowing for a fact that you and him won't work. moving on will be a much easier task. liking someone for a long time without telling them how you feel about them will hurt you much more than being turned down. and one of the reasons you are feeling 'pretty lonely these days' is because you are not getting the thing you want, and over time the pain just grows. you will find someone eventually, the right one will pop up sooner or later. good luck.