There is this guy i like at school. but the problem is everyone hates him. i don't have a problem with him thou. i have recently got his attention and we flirt like mad. but my friends don't want me to go near him. they say he's pathetic and that i deserve better. but i like him and only him. i have tryed to tell my friends to back off but they just wont listen! What should i do?How do I deal with crush?
Friends oppinions can always be for the best.
They may see you being together and you getting hurt.
But if you geninuenly like this guy, Go for it..
You just might not have the approval of your friends :)xxHow do I deal with crush?
Go out with him
ignore your friends. . .
you shouldnt care what other people think
ignore them, who cares what they think? go for him, it sounds like you guys like eachother!
two possible ways
go out with this person
or try and focus your fanticies on someone else and distract yourself from this guy
DO what you feel is right.
If you have feelings for him then GO FOR IT!
Good luck %26lt;3
it's your life so you can like whoever you want to. just ignore your friends and maybe they'll come around and see why you like this guy.
go out with him. they'll get used to him
reallie, get to KNOE HIM.
and then you can choose for yourself.
good luck xx
If you like him that much you shouldn't care what your friends think, if they are good friends they will respect your decisions and back off. Good luck!
go out w/ him bee who u want 2 bee not what others want 2 see
I think that the answer to this question requires a numbered list.
1. Purchase a firearm. If you're too young, steal one either from your parents or a neighbor.
2. Shoot all of your friends.
3. ?????
4. Profit!
get him addicted to herion then beat him in his sleep THAT WILL TEACH HIM
the next time you see him in school just tell him that you like him and don't worry what your friends think or anybody else. friends don't always have best interest at heart.
Wait for the time to get right. Either somehow show the person how his behaviour is affecting other's attitute towadrs him or leave him at it.
Tell him that you like him when he's nice, and if he wants to be with you, he has to turn into a ';nice'; guy.
Nobody likes being pathetic.
Your friends care about you and must have a reason for hating him so much. If they don't then they are just jealous and want him for themselves. Ask your friends what there problem is! If it is something serious, like they heard he treated another girl bad or if he cheats at tests, then you should thank them for looking out for you and talk to him about it, and decide from there if you want to go out with that kind of guy.
If your friends can't give you an exact reason, don't listen to them! Peer pressure is stupid. Continue seeing this guy. Haven't you seen A Walk To Remember? His friends thought Mandy Moore was lame. Look how that turned out. Not saying your crush is going to die, lol.
Talk to your friends. Talk to your crush.
hey this is about you not about what others say, if you listen what people say all the time then im sorry sweetie, you wont even be able to live this life, people will always have their opinion sometime good and sometimes bad, but the choice is yours, but dont take a desicion just because of what people say, just do what you think is right and do whatever makes you feel good!
well, why dont u just ask him out , give him a chance imagin how awful he feels if every1 hates him but he has found that u like him and how happy u have prob made him feel. ur friends rnt really friends if they wont respect ur decisions, tel them u will decide for urself who u do and dont deserve, i feel sorry for the lad as u say no1 likes him, buti wuld just give him a chance so then u can show ppl that he isnt all that bad, :) hope this helps
You should treat him based on your feelings, not the feelings of everyone else.
If you like him, then go for it. It's your choice.
It's your choice. It's either go out with him and make new friends, or don't and your friends will be happy. If I were you, I prefer choosing whatever makes me happy. If I like him, I go out with him and find new friends. If I like my friends more than him, then I should wait until my friends agree with me, if they don't then I would just be normal.
Or... secretly dating him! Like meet up early at school and flirt, or, act like you don't like him, but at other places beside school, go out with him.
I hope that helps!
you should totally ask him out.
and that's them not you.so in a short sentence.
don't care what they say.do what you
want.your not them and there not you.
well, firsty, who makes you more happier, u or ur friends. my friends were like that with an ex-boyfriend of mine. but, u know, you always have to find everyhting out for urself, and you have to make your own mistakes. tell them that its ur life, u make your own decisions, and that you appreacite how much they care for you, but you really like him, and if you too go out, tell them that they'll have to expet him no matter what. the number one girl rule is never dis a friends boyfriend, until the friend starts dissing her boyfriend. and more than likely you and this arent going to get married have kids and grow old together, so why does it matter???
you need to tell them that you really like him and he really likes him and if you two go out, then they should be happy for you; and tell them not all the guys they've liked have been winners too, and you havent protested as much about their relationships as much as they are about yours.
jope i've helped some.
good luck
ignore your friends. if your happy- they should be happy for you. follow your heart, but be careful before you take the next step, get to know him really well first.
i have the same issue.
ignore your friends, if you like him go for it,
my friends hated this guy i was dating but they got over it,
i'm still with him its been like for ages now,
But they still hate him.
talk to him more n hang around him more,
then maybee he might be interested in youu.
.xoo
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